My live-in bf of 2 years dumped me HARD 2 months ago b/c he wanted 2 b single with his single pals. He is the type of guy that doesn’t like to be wrong or to apologize. Once he makes up his mind, that’s it. (Aries)
I am devastated and extremely depressed about this still.
He hasn’t contacted me since to see how I was doing which is lame of him.
I haven’t contacted him out of sheer shame b/c we live in the same town.
I was crying every night for him (still am). I am still very much in love with him. I think he has been mis-guided by his friends.
Strangely, in the last few weeks, his other friends (females) contacted me to say hi and how I was doing. They never contacted me before. I gave them very vague info.
Now, last night, he sent me a text because he wants me to go on a overnite trip to a casino with him on Friday.
I don’t know what I should do or think? What do you think is going on in his mind? Should I say yes b/c I really do wanna go b/c I like the casino?
I think he wants ***.
if you say yes, then you’re probably setting yourself up to be used – he can get the best of both worlds – no commitment to a girlfriend, and yet have you on call when he wants to get laid.
Comment by Pinky S — September 8, 2009 @ 7:34 am
…..I’m thinking if he dumped you honey to be with his other close guy and girl friends reasonably?…….there’s not much hope of getting an emotional spark back for this come and goer’ seemingly.
He’s not emotionally mature enough to be handling a serious relationship with you sweetie otherwise…..do ya think?
Go to the CASINO with him if you want to hun…..but if I were you seemingly?…..I’d tell him that you already have other plans with somebody else this Friday,….and simply then don’t tell his investigative csi female friends and others virtually NOTHING verbally honestly!
Your life is your very own personal business now sweetie….not his to simply play and do with what and when he wants otherwise….agreed?
Good luck to you hun directly.
get under somebody else to get over this un-nerving guy honestly…..cool?
Stay away from this guy and his *** and go tactics honestly.
You’ll be the only one who gets emotionally hurt in this otherwise…not him reasonably!
….are we cool sister?
Comment by scott s — September 8, 2009 @ 10:04 am
You will never truly know unless you ask him point blank what his intentions are, however, if he has not stated to you that he made a mistake & wants you back, sadly the chances are much more likely that he doesn’t want a committed relationship. Unless you know for sure what his intentions are it really isn’t in your best interests to go on this date. You might think it’s opening the door but it’s giving him a free booty call and you will feel worse about yourself after you get back. If you really want him back, freeze him out & make him come to you. If he doesn’t, he wouldn’t anyway. I’ve had my heart stomped on & realize how difficult it is to let go but you will love again no matter how you feel now. Better to deal with the reality and move on.
Comment by Este — September 11, 2009 @ 1:04 pm
He is thinking of new ways to hurt you. He takes pleasure in it.
Go find a bum on the street corner begging for food, and take him to the Casino with you. You will have a much much better time. And he will appreciate you a lot more.
Comment by Feeling Mutual — September 14, 2009 @ 12:52 pm